Q. I
like my job, but sometimes I feel like I'm in a rut. It's pretty much
the same every day. I use a planner and set goals. But about
mid-afternoon on most afternoons, I'm bored and feel sleepy. Any
suggestions? Tom W.
A. Yes,
but first a few basics: How's your general health? Sorry, but let’s
start with your weight—because 65 percent of us in are
overweight. If your weight is 10 per cent or more than what's
recommended for you, it could be holding you back—and making
you tired. For example, if you're a man whose recommended weight is
180 lb, and you weigh 200, you're carrying the equivalent of four
5-lb sacks of flour or sugar all day long. (I just realized that
this example applies to me.) Try holding four of these 5-lb sacks all
the time while you shop. I know it helped dramatize why sometimes I
feel
tired by mid-afternoon!
More basics: Do you
smoke? Don't get at least 20 minutes of sweat-producing exercise
three times a week? Drink too much? Have too much stress in your
life?
Don't get enough sleep?
Any of these behaviors contribute to a lack of energy and a fresh,
energetic outlook throughout the day. Once we have our physical
machinery working well, we can start looking at some psychological or
internal motivators.
Start Briskly; End
Peacefully
Consider getting up
30-60 minutes earlier than usual for exercise; a 30-minute walk; a
more leisurely breakfast; meditation or soul-searching; review of
goals; study of
something new,
interesting and challenging, like learning a foreign language or
solving some brainteasers. Take a different route to work once a week
and notice the scenery. Really notice it. Look for opportunities each
day to change your life patterns and look at your activities in a
fresh, new way. Read a different magazine or newspaper. Listen to a
radio station you haven’t heard before. Watch an uplifting,
challenging program on TV (there are plenty of them, once you start
looking.)
At
work, re-align your goals or work plan for the day.
Throughout the day, before you start anything, focus on your goal.
Ask, “Is
what I’m doing right now helping me meet my goals. If not, why
am I doing it?”
(If you don't know where you're going, how will you ever get there?)
Set interim objectives and reward yourself for successes. Organize
your tasks into A, B and C priorities. Each day, work on the A's and
don't do any B's until your A's are finished. Set priorities for the
week, month, and year. Use
a planner throughout the day—don't rely on your memory. "Bunch"
similar activities: making phone calls; opening the mail; filing.
Cut
unnecessary communication time by setting time limits up front. Say,
"Sorry,
but I've got only five minutes to talk before I have to head for a
meeting." Outline
topics for phone calls in advance. Say, "I'm
calling to ask about two problems."
You
can't do everything, so look for ways to delegate, and re-arrange
your workload. Ask for help, if needed. Set aside at least one
appointment with yourself each day. Use it for quiet time that will
let you focus on a project. Build more lead time into deadlines.
You'll eliminate the last-minute crisis-management approach.
Build Support From
Co-Workers
Give people frequent
recognition for their efforts. Ask for needed changes in behavior
gently, and with respect, but don't overlook errors for the sake of
being popular. Praising other people will energize you as well.
Develop good problem-solving skills and put them to good
use--often--and in a way that'll let your boss, and other bosses, see
your good work.
Plan Your Career
Carefully, in writing,
plan your career growth in at least six-month segments. Outline what
you have to accomplish to qualify for the next job. What courses do
you have to take? What skills do you need? What people do you need
to build rapport with? Do you need a mentor? Do you need to read
specific books or journals?
Balance Your Life
For you to stay energized
and, in the long term, energize your career, you've got to be the
kind of person people enjoy, and want to be around. Learn how to
handle stress; how to relax and enjoy yourself, your family, friends
and other employees. Enjoy outside hobbies and activities so you'll
have a balanced life you can look forward to each day. Grow a sense
of humor and be able to laugh at yourself and the ridiculous
situations you encounter daily. And smile...often! Relax in the
evening with family or friends; slow down and become more peaceful as
you move toward bedtime. Be thankful for the day. Doing these things
should drive away most of the sleepiness during the day.