I’ve
been laid off and am trying hard to get re-hired. But the prospect
looks pretty dim for the next few months, and the lack of productive
things to do is getting to me.
I
need to feel valued, and I got that from working.
–Elizabeth H.
One
problem we can develop in our fast-paced, job-focused society is to
link who we are
with what we do
for a living. Some people like to define themselves in terms of
their work or career. But there’s trouble when they’re
told they’re no longer needed—they begin to think they’re
not very important as individuals. That’s not healthy—or
reasonable.
It’s
important for you to develop a vigorous action plan to get a new job.
And you should work as hard at getting a job as you would actually
working for someone else. Maybe even harder. To overcome your natural
feeling of not being valued, why not take some time and list all your
qualities—work-related as well as personal? Developing such a
list should help you focus on many talents you have that you may have
forgotten about in the trauma of losing your job. And consider
re-inventing yourself—waking up talents you may have put aside
for several years. One way to use those talents is through
volunteering. You also may find that volunteering is deeply rewarding
and renews your sense of self-worth.
Writing
in CBS.MarketWatch.com,
Alisa Weinstein says that
volunteering helps jobseekers network and sharpen skills—it
isn’t just for do-gooders anymore. “For people who've
been laid off, working without compensation can be a critical step in
landing a new job,” she finds. “Beyond spiritual rewards,
volunteer work offers the ability to network, learn new skills,
demonstrate leadership or test out a new career track.”
"Anything
that you do productively in life helps augment your career, whether
it's paid or not," said Peg McCallister, general manager at Lee
Hecht Harrison, a New Jersey-based career development company.
In
times when paid jobs are harder to come by, volunteer jobs offer a
chance to showcase your skills to potential employers. And spending
some time when you’re not actually job-searching is healthy
behavior—instead of surfing the Web or being a couch potato.
You send a
strong
message to yourself that you're self-motivated in creating a healthy
career. It may also surprise you to learn that more than 40 percent
of adults volunteered at least a few hours each week last year. And
almost a quarter did it to make new business contacts, according to a
study by Independent Sector, coalition of leading nonprofits,
foundations and corporations.
You
might start on the Web at VolunteerMatch.org.
This site connects people with non-profit organizations in areas
such as advocacy and human rights, sports and recreation, computers
and technology and media and broadcasting. For example, if you’re
an out-of-work graphic designer, you might create a newsletter for
Big Brothers and Sisters; a computer programmer could develop a Web
site for a local church; a journalist might be in great demand to
write feature stories for a newsletter about parks and trails.
Volunteering
also can lead to full-time employment. Teri Schroeder, president of
I-Safe, a nonprofit Internet safety foundation, said she's hired
volunteer database programmers, system analysts and engineers she
found through Volunteer Match. “These workers have an edge over
other applicants when it comes to hiring,” Schroeder says.
"It's great for us because they're familiar with the project."
To
keep your career-building focus, consider calling companies you want
to work for to find out which organizations they support, and
volunteer there. Then you can network within those
organizations—often connecting with company managers you
wouldn’t otherwise have access to. (But be cautious about
volunteering for highly political or controversial organizations. A
controversial organization could
influence a potential employer positively or not, depending on who
reads the resume.) But, overall, volunteering can make you a more
well rounded job applicant, especially if you've been unemployed for
an extended period of time. And feeling good about yourself during
this difficult time is especially important for keeping a positive
outlook. Good luck, and enjoy the many fresh experiences waiting for
you.