Q. I
was embarrassed today when two of us gave presentations on the same
topic. I didn’t finish college, and just talked the way I
usually do. The other person sometimes used bigger words, and made a
better impression. I know I’m just as smart and my ideas are
just as good. But she had their attention and won her point. What is
your opinion of this?
—Florence T.
A. Everyday
words usually work best, and are best for clear communication. But
sometimes a more sophisticated word is more precise—and
appropriate. Using a wider range of vocabulary also can send a strong
message that you have strong, commanding ideas and clear thinking.
You may have a valuable opportunity to build an even stronger image
for yourself. It’s not difficult, takes only a few moments a
day, and you may find that it boosts your confidence as well as your
word power!
In
general, people today don’t have the vocabulary power that
people had years ago. In 1950, the average 14-year-old had a
vocabulary of 50,000 words. Today, the average teenager knows only
25,000 words. That’s one of the reasons many teenagers speak so
poorly and don’t make a positive impression on adults. Whether
you went to college has little to do with your vocabulary. What
matters is how serious you are about building a powerful vocabulary,
and learning how to express yourself professionally.
We
form perceptions about the people we meet based on how they look and
how they conduct themselves. Psychologists have conducted experiments
with people dressed smartly in business clothes and those dressed
more informally—in jeans, for example.
When
both groups asked strangers if they could borrow a quarter for a
phone call, the well-dressed people got more quarters—easily.
People just trusted them more—simply because of the
professional way they looked.
Our
Speech Gives Us Away
Another
example: How much credibility do you give to someone’s
explanation of a movie or TV show, when you hear, “Me and Joe
watched it last night and it was, like, you know, totally awesome. At
the end, Joe goes, ‘Man, I was really into that.’ And I’m
like, ‘Yeah, me, too.’ “
Increasingly,
many of us have too easily joined a trend that’s been called
the “dumbing down” of America. Today the average person
watches television more than 30 hours a week. There’s not much
opportunity to build a powerful, commanding vocabulary watching
“American Idol” “Dancing With The Stars,” or
“Desperate Housewives.” Successful business professionals
respect accurate analyses, expressed clearly and forcefully. Having
and using a powerful vocabulary can help us gain that respect. Smart
executives on the way up learned this lesson early in their careers.
I’m
not suggesting that you look for opportunities to use big words just
for their own sake. You'll appear phony if you start saying
“remuneration” instead of “pay” or “salary.”
And you should always choose words appropriate for your audience. The
words you
choose
to talk informally with co-workers may be quite different from those
you’d want
to
use to a group of scientists, engineers, or software programmers.
A
good guideline you can follow for using for clear, professional
language gains respect is the way national television news anchors
and reporters speak. Listen to how they pronounce their words, and
their choice of words. You don’t have to have a dictionary next
to you to understand them, but I think you’ll agree they have a
good command of English—and show clear thinking. My best
advice: imitate them, and start learning and using—at least one
new word each day.
You’ll
find many good books on how to increase your word power, and a good
source is the Internet. Here are some valuable sites:
Merriam-Webster's
Word of the Day
—
Subscribe
free; receive a new word each day; selections are valuable, helpful,
practical, ideal for business.
A.Word.A.Day
—
Get
a new word every day; interesting, but sometimes a little
impractical.
Oxford
English Dictionary: Word of the Day
—
A
complete history of the word through the centuries.
The
Mavens’ Word of the Day –
Interesting
facts about each word and its use. Practical and helpful.
Travlang's
Word of the Day —
Travel-related
words, translated into 50 languages.
Cool
Word of the Day—
Interesting
facts about words like “domino," " vitriolic."
10-day free trial, then $8 a year.
Word
Central
–
Interesting
graphics for young readers; student dictionary; Word
of the Day;
interactive word games.
Enjoy
your growth. And maybe the next time you speak at a meeting you’ll
say something like this: “We now have an astounding marketing
opportunity. The apparent dichotomy between the need for higher
profits and stepped-up advertising is easily resolved—with just
two simple strategies.” Or maybe, “We recently discovered
an anomaly between our traditional marketing demographics, and who’s
actually buying our product today.”